Ben Solo Lives (at my house): A Journey of Acceptance





Ben Solo Lives (at my house): A Journey of Acceptance
by Jen Davies, nerd
May 13, 2026

My blog is late this week because it's been a heck of a busy week! And it started with a jump scare by Ben, my houseguest since mid-March when I brought him home from Toronto Comicon.

As you can imagine, my spouse was a little concerned to have a lifesize cutout of an artistic rendition of Ben Solo / Adam Driver around the house. He is confident in his masculinity so I don't think it was that he felt like the piece of art was a threat. It's just... it looks like a person! And it's flat but the base is large enough that it doesn't fit conveniently in a closet, so Ben has been floating around the house for a while.

The jump scares started with me, setting it up in places I thought spouse might find. I was a bad guesser, it would be days and days before spouse found him.

But recently, spouse has deigned to touch the Ben Solo cutout, and now Ben surprises me all over the place. And I really do jump! (And smile, because come on - this piece of art by AltoCello at altocello.com is beautiful.) In other words, spouse has accepted that Ben is staying with us.

All that to say, Ben Solo lives. At my house for now. And even if my spouse doesn't welcome him exactly, they seem to have found an equilibrium.


#adamdriver #bensololives #thehuntforbensolo #houseguest

FYI AltoCello let us use the piece of art for savebensolo.com



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